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Interference of People in Others lives: Voice of a Gossip Girl in my Society

This inspiration article is about the Unexpected and Irrelevant Interference of People in Others lives: It is a silent Voice of a Gossip Girl of my Society.

I always prefer to say that, ignore the naysayers. Most of the time in our daily life routines, the only thing which happens to all of us is that people say something irrelevantly! They don’t mean to mind our business but they still do so. Because this is the only free thing people of the world can do for you all the time. And these sayings many a time are irrelevant and unexpected, even not a single logic they have in their words. Moreover, the naysayers can’t stay calm and they always say something. So, Don’t worry! Let The Say.

Why I will interfere with someone else’s life?

When girls say “NO” to anything, maybe it is the matter of her educational career or her engagement, which is the decision of her entire life.

In your routine life when you say “NO” to anything against your will. You don’t know why the bunch of words you need, to explain your single word “The NO”. For one single “NO”; a hundred objections you might face. No one goes to accept your “NO” easily rather you will have to accept a hundred or more than a hundred objections. That’s the society where we live. And I always love to say “Love Your Girls“.

Voice of a Gossip Girl

Every single person will ask, why you say “NO” to it.

The sick mentalities, these mentalities have zero stamina to accept the other’s suggestions or decisions. For this society you are a good person until you say “YES” as per their expectations, on the other hand, you are the worst person if you say “NO” against their expectations.

The toughest part is that you have to express your emotions and decisions like a pastry. Your main focus should be that no one going to be hurt by your sayings and everyone should like your presentation.

None of them is going to listen to your heart and mind. Not that what you’re thinking, what’s your point of view, what’s your priority, what’s the situation you’re going through while making this decision. You will just have to focus on making it a pastry.

After presenting this pastry the main match began. No one understands the simple meaning of it. Everyone will try their best to add some negativity to it by expressing their own point of view. But Don’t Worry, God will always make a Way for You.

The Voice of a Gossip Girl!

Voice of Gossip Girl

Maybe she wants to say another thing through this, Maybe she wants to say that, Maybe she does not trust us, Maybe she has another backup and the major negativity is the final comment I know he is going to reject it from the start!!!!! Alas, all mentalities are sick and it will remain the same until they prefer understanding rather than judging. That’s why I always say; “Never mind! Don’t judge me“. Don’t judge me for my single mistake rather than judge me for all my good deeds.

So, just trying to say “YES/OK” to others and make their lives easier. Here, it is considered much better than making you the worst person by the false-positive imagination of people.

This was the Voice of a Gossip Girl from a Society where we live!

My advice to these girls! I just want to say that start believing in yourself, find out your powers, and just do what you love to do. You are the only one responsible for your life. Don’t put your life into the fire for the sake of others. It does not matter what kind of people you have in life. You have to live your own life. You must have a Strong Vision in your Life.

Moreover, define a field for your future career and start efforts with your full concentration. All you need to do is, add your passion and integrity to it. Work with consistency if you start working like that one day you will find your aim in life. And this destination is the end of your success journey where you find peace and also will meet yourself “the best of you”. Moreover, It’s Never too Late to Start Living Your Life Again.

What would you like to say about these Naysayers?

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18 Responses

  1. Gossip is a tool of the weak and is weapon of the strong.

    • Rising Star says:

      Wow, that’s excellent quote learned from you Gerry. You are absolutely right my friend. It depends on the person how he use the gossip👏👏👏

  2. Máryurit says:

    Todo aquella persona que se precie de buena persona se va a enfocar en su propia vida, en ser mejor y hacer más por sí misma y por el bien de los demás, por tanto tendrá poco tiempo para los “cotilleos”, no creo que aporten nada bueno a nuestra vida..apenas hay que aprender a convivir con ellos.
    La gente que nos ama de verdad, a quienes les importamos y quienes nos importan siempre van a encontrar mejor forma de darnos un consejo o una opinión y aún así siempre queda de nosotros tomar o no en cuenta ese criterio que apunta a ser constructivo.
    Por otra parte, pienso que estar en paz con nosotros mismos es la mejor señal de encontrarnos en el camino correcto. No siempre se puede decir SI, pienso que decir NO cuando es preciso decir NO o cuando simplemente es nuestra voluntad decir NO es de valientes.
    El único que tiene el derecho de juzgar es Dios y EL nos ama incondicionalmente.
    Excelente post Rising Star.👏👏👏

    • Rising Star says:

      Absolutamente cierto querido, si uno solo se enfocara en uno mismo, puede vivir una vida más tranquila. De hecho, otras personas también dificultan nuestras vidas.

  3. well explained…. and yes people who are not happy in their own life try to interfere in others life..mostly in a negative way.

  4. inspirechief says:

    Very inspirational and well written. I will send it to my daughters. Thank you for sharing.

    • Rising Star says:

      Thanks inspire cheif. I am truly honored. And yes in my opinion our children’s must be aware of all the ups and downs of life to timely prepare our selves to handle any consequences.

  5. onojaria6 says:

    Gossip is a killer of good ideas it only breeds doubts and set backs. It is truly motivational In deed .

  6. aruna3 says:

    Absolutely true.mostly persons don’t like to hear ‘NO’ and expect from others to be agree.Gossip is natural in all societies,dear Rising Star.

  7. Melanie says:

    Excellent advice for girls or anyone really. We fear what people will think of us and our actions but in the end only what God thinks matters and He puts our direction in our heart if we will listen. We ma even be persecuted for what we do or for our “no” but we can have peace knowing we are doing the right thing. Thank you for the encouragement.

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