Love your Girls
In most of the countries, when a girl or lady wants to start something new in her life before marriage or after marriage, she faces a lot of discouragement from her family and fellow friends. She goes through a lot of discouragement before going to start something different and unexpected. Nobody looks ready to respect her emotions and accept her decision. Nobody cares for her utmost wish in life. Even her parents don’t want her to love her Passion. She goes through a very big exam before starting her journey. Win or loss comes after that first exam of agreeing with their family. Female education is considered a second priority. Although female education is as important as male education. Girls and women are made for love, So love them unconditionally.
Her family makes a list to disappoint her, like:
- You won’t be able to complete it.
- You can’t do it because you are a doctor or you can’t become an engineer.
- Continuing education after marriage is impossible; you have to give time to your new family.
- You won’t be able to study properly as you are working full time.
- You are a girl and girls are not suitable for these posts.
And the list goes on…..
Education is so much important for girls as well. As long as I observed girls are more intelligent than boys. They are more curious about their studies and their future. Girls are more hard-working as well. They can achieve any milestone with their devotion and hard work. But when she put a step in her journey, nothing can stop her from her achievement. This achievement shows determination, hard work, and vision. She can achieve whatever she wants.
I wish that each of the individuals must be given full rights. Especially when there comes a matter of education. Female education must be prioritized over male education. Everyone should be free to achieve want they wish. Encourage your people to just take a decision. Love your Girls and proud of your girls. Educate them about what she wants to learn. Try to clear each and every obstacle in their way of desires. Everybody can do everything because Nothing is impossible in this world. Encourage them and inspire them that your desires and milestones are just a decision away.
Is there any such situation in your area?
Such a great post!! Hats off to you. Educating a girl is like educating the whole family or you can society.
Absolutely right dear and I am fully agree with your beliefs. An educated mother is responsible for all their children’s behavior and confidence. An educated mother can breed up in a much better way.
I really like this post . Needed to be said.such an eye opener of what girls go through have to endure. Too much on them.
Absolutely right Kim, girls are suffering from so much pressure to make decisions about their lives.
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Sadly why are girls so pressured of what they will do in life and men I do not see as pressured it’s like men already know what to do . If that makes sense . I know what I’m trying to say but can’t explain it 🙂
I can’t know the exact answer but in my areas man is always superior over a woman. Man can do anything he want to do, either right or wrong. Nobody can ask him for his doing but woman are bound his husband. She can’t do what she want to or what she love to do.
Yes I understand this😊
Yes Kim you are having a lot of life experience and possibly have gone through all these happening with girl. Am I right:?
Yes definitely. And being a girl, women is much harder than being a man… Sorry to say lol, we seem to take on so much more of the mental worries of life more than men. ( my opinion)
Absolutely right, I’, fully agree with your opinion as I observed a woman bears a lot of stress in her life includes after marriage problems and baby birth and many more that mostely happens after marriage. So Woman are always harder over man.
Yes! Thank you😊
You are more than welcome Friend
It is interesting having conversations like this with you. You’re young but very wise😊
Ahhh, Thanks for the compliments Kim, its nice conversations with you too. I found something new to listen from you.
Oh, you found something new about me? Is that what you mean 😊
Not about you Kim, about happenings all around. You haven’t told about yourself as long as I remembered.
Ahh okay. I have said some things about me. What are you interested in to know, If you are?
I don’t know exactly Kim, what should I ask? But I always had a great concersation with you and it’s to listen from you always.
That is nice of you. I take that as a compliment. Anything you like.
BTW What do you do or what is/was your profession in your life?
Let’s see for yrs I was a cook in several facilities first at a nursing home and then a private school. I was an Activity Director at a nursing home helping the patients to keep active. And then after many yrs I just was a stay at home mom. And a. Caregiver to my younger brother who was in a wheelchair. And now kids are adults my brother lives elsewhere and I’m being me again, writing, back to the gym spending time with friends again well more time. . So working on me😊
Wow, That’s so nice of you Kim. You are having a lot of experiences and achievments in your life. And now you are still doing great job for helping your younger brother. You are really a great woman Kim. Happy to be in your friends list. LOL.
Well it’s not a fascinating life but thank you 😊 and I am happy to be on yours😊
Thanks for your time and good conversation Kim. Have a wonderful day.
Thank you and you have a wonderful day as well.
This is a very interesting article. There is so much in it. I do agree that girls should be educated and allowed to become whatever they want. Sometimes that includes getting married and having a family and sometimes it doesn’t. For whatever reason a girl makes this choice, it is hers to make because she must live her life. I will say that I also believe that a boy must be educated because it should be an equal opportunity for either gender. The very fact that our Creator gave us this equal opportunity by making it possible for boys and girls to learn equally well, proves that point to me. I wish you well in your endeavour to help girls.
I am fully agree with your beliefs and your sayings. Both the genders must be given the equal opportunity to express their emotions. Thanks for your visiting my blog and adding your worthy words. It really means a lot to me.
You’re welcome! Thank you also for visiting my blog page, I’m very grateful. 🙂
Your blog is awesome and I am pretty sure that I will visit your blog again and again. Have a wonderful blogging journey 🤗💞
Thank you so much 🙂 I will also visit your blog. Take care now and have a wonderful day.
You too 💞🤗
Well, what should I tell now. I totally agree with what you said. For blogging itself, there were much issues I went through. There are many things still happening in this world in the name of inequality.
Absolutely right dear and I think blogging is not a so much bigger problem because you can do it without any permissions. Girls faces problems where she goes out of her home and in public places like jobs etc.
It is not at all a big problem, that’s why it hurts more. Here I witnessed it very well. You can see these kind of women sufferings in South.
Absolutely right dear almost all of the Asian countries women are suffering from it. Women’s of my society are so much bound to the rules of their families. Isn’t it?
Yep very well said. A big constitution. I have shown your work to my Bhai, he appreciated and told me to not interact like this with strange beings. I was like giggling inside. I will be showing this too.
Oh, I see, it means I should respect your privacy as it might create problems for you in the future. 🤔
😂😂😂 That’s alright. It’s lunch time for me.
That’s cooool, have a great lunch. 🤗
Good work Rising Star. Keep going. 😊✌
It is true, I think, regardless of the society and culture that females have been marginalized in so many ways. This is such a great post.
Thanks for your inspirational words and I am fully agree with your sayings. We need equality between male and female, in every aspect of their lives.
Indeed, we do.
Yep, but sad😢
Really,you are absolutely right.
Thanks dear
Welcome,dear Rising Star!!🌷