Live with People Who Feel Proud to Have You Among Them
We should compromise our qualities and live according to the choice and conditions of the community we are living.
We bound our community as, to accept us with all our moral and social values.
- Feel proud on having us among them: We must remain in between the people who always feel proud of having us among them. These are our real lovers and will always want to keep us among them.
- For whom we are their priority: These people will give us most priority. They will not keep anything else important then us.
- Stay loyal to us when times are hard: These people will always try to stay loyal to us. Whenever there comes a hard time on us, they will never say us good bye, but they will stand still with us. They will face every hurdles in our way, until we become stable.
- Celebrate successes with us: These people will celebrate success with us, not only for show, but they will really feel proud and happiness, and will really enjoy our celebrations.
- Bring out the best in us: These people will always try to bring out best in us and in our attitude. They will motivate us and guide us in every field of life.
- Are afraid to lose us: These people will never want to lose us. They will be afraid of losing us. They will try their best to keep us connected with them. They will remove hurdles coming in between them and our way, so that the connection will become more strengthen.
- Will trust us: These people will always trust us. They will first try to build trust in us. They will not compromise on our honesty and loyalty. Their trust will make us stronger and worthier.
To exist, it is rational to define, choose, and prioritize norms and behaviors that enable the development of people and communities; and societies as a whole; and neglecting others that make the healthy balance between the individual and the community impossible, and weaken and/or dissipate societies.
To understand and to treat the basic issues of people’s survival and quality of life in communities, is a need to take up the tools and elements that define morality and rules for the public and private well-being of citizens. One instrument is The Holy Bible; and one element is the family — father, mother, and children.
For those who have faith, Christian doctrine proposes principles that guide people in making the necessary choices for the best community life; in both personal and social matters; whether for an individual only, or for society as a whole, at any time, and anywhere.
Among numerous qualifiers, these are the Strength, Honesty, Healthiness, and the Beauty of Christian Doctrine.
First of all I’m so sorry for late response. Second I 100% with all your suggestions. Holy Bible is a great source of wisdom and information. It has described all the best living standards.
Parents are also a great source of inspiration and motivation. They can make their lives easier and build their moral at the highest level of standard.
Thank you so much for your time and honorable response. Blessings.
Thanks and Blessings, Rising!
Thank you kind carlos
Great article
Thanks Shayla
You are right to surround yourself with people who support you and in turn you can then support them. Life is too short to be around negativity and too short to shroud your true self trying to live in a community that does not represent you.
Awesome Anne, you are absolutely right. Life is really too short, support can make it longer, successful and enjoyable. We are nothing all alone. Negativity make it weak and empty like a vessel. Thank you so much for your kind words and honorable feedback. It means a lot to me. Blessings.
Excellent article, and something we all need to have in our life. I guess one of my best memories is of teaching illiterate adults how to read. They are so ashamed of their lack of literacy and so limited in their social lives, you cannot begin to imagine. Most people think it means just not being able able to order from a menu or to fill out a job application, but it is so much more than that. It is a lack of social esteem, and for man of them, being compromised so that they can have a life outside of alleys and other dark and dangerous places. But it also puts them at the mercy of everyone and everything around them because they cannot fully understand what they have learned, and the lack of reading skills goes a lot deeper than just reading words. When you cannot read, you also cannot comprehend the meaning of many words you have not even heard, let alone read.
Others who CAN read treat people who cannot with disrespect or impatience at their inability to know things. And we might wonder how it is that people go all the way through high school and in some instances, junior college. When asked how one person got so high up in grades when she could not read, she just told me that the teachers passed her on so they would not have to deal with her not being able to read. They needed to spend their time with the ones who could read because their own standings as teachers depended on their success. This is sad, but all too true, and having worked in the public school system for many years, I truly understand this thinking. It is the reason I stayed a substitute instead of a permanent employee even though I had many opportunities over the years.
So when I taught my illiterate students how to read, I also taught them about making good decisions for their lives. Some of them had never experienced everyday things that we so take for granted. It is difficult to believe, but it is absolutely true. I taught them how to set goals for their own growth not only financially, but spiritually and mentally too, and they loved that. I am so glad I served as a volunteer teacher for teaching illiterate adults. Thank you so kindly, Anne
Wow, you are really such a great lady. I love your passion of helping others. It’s a great job to teach illiterate adults, I think they will feel so good after getting some good knowledge and will always pay for you.
Last time I visited my town and I found one of my uncle getting religious knowledge at an age of 60’s, from one of our religious teachers. First I laughed but then feel sorrow for my action, because it is very much appreciated to get know about religion even at this age. Thank you so kind. I will keep you remembered in my prayers. Blessings.
Thanks for the compliments