Body language is considered one of the major factors that directly affect our communication. We convey different massages through our gestures, postures, and body moments either consciously or sometimes unconsciously. If there is something we should learn from, more than listening, it is interpreting what you see when you meet a friend. Your conscious mind works every second, every thousandth of a second in receiving information from your friend focuses but the problem is that all that attention is directed to interpret what your friend is saying, on the other hand, it is your unconscious mind that is in charge to detect body patterns…what really matters.
The goal of this article is to teach you how to train your mind and body to be able to detect these signals in a conscious way and to improve your communication skills by knowing the exact use of gestures, posters and kinetics. This way you can practice reading people by their body gestures. You will be able to discover the truth behind the words that come out of his mouth (which often lie).
Throughout the article, we will tell you in detail universal patterns that exist in human body language, as well as special patterns that occur on certain occasions, and that they will help you in an incredible way to understand what it is and what a person is actually saying.
You will not only learn how to read other people’s body language, but also we will tell you how to behave in front of others. In this way, you will be able to express different moods and influence both a personal conversation and in front of an audience. You will be able to understand through clear examples such as make a Great First Impression, which can allow you to win that position of work or even to conquer that girl that catches your attention so much.
After reading this article, you will have a great mastery both in your own language that you express to those around you, as well as an excellent interpretation of the world. Good knowledge of body language will allow you to communicate in a much more effective way and at the same time build much stronger and lasting relationships over time. Here’s the Importance of Body Language in Communication.
“Very few people have knowledge about body language… why not learn it and take advantage of it?”
The benefits of knowing how to read the language Bodily!
Body Language is the closest thing to a human lie detector. Everyone in life we have lied, whether it is a small and innocent lie or on the contrary a great lie that we do not want anyone to discover… we are Humans, we all have.
Do you realize the enormous potential that this tool can give you?
You can apply body language to all aspects of life, from conversations with friends, relationships, when you talk with your co-workers and even when you are about to sign a contract millionaire for a business that can change your life (or ruin it if you don’t know they are lying to you). The possibilities are endless and it is you who must take advantage of it from TODAY!
Using the wrong body language can throw your intentions overboard to conquer the girl of your dreams in just SECONDS!. Enough that the first impressions that she takes so that she discards you for life from their plans…
Surely it has happened to you that a person X arrives and from the first moment you feel uncomfortable with her, either because of the way she speaks, her gestures and even because of his own personality… that same thing may be happening to the surrounding people… do not let the ignorance of this language lead you to the failure!
It doesn’t matter if you are a student, engineer, doctor or even a visionary entrepreneur. Body language is vital to each and every one of us. Already whether we want to improve our appearance in front of the rest, lead great technological projects, get your team of doctors to trust your abilities or you want to inspire others to trust in your abilities.
“NON-VERBAL Language is the Key to Success”
Position:
It is vital to create awareness of posture and postural vices, since by maintaining a straight posture; we will look taller, slimmer and will help us raise self-esteem. To achieve a correct posture, keep your shoulders back and down, keep your head level, your arms at your sides, and your feet shoulder-width apart.
Walk:
By walking, we can communicate positive things like security or serenity, or negative things like anxiety or laziness. To transmit a positive attitude we must look straight ahead, keep the pelvis aligned, the stomach contracted and our steps at a moderate pace.
Feel:
When sitting, the hips should be at a 90° angle with the back, the shoulders should relax, and the knees should be level with the hips.
Facial expressions and gestures:
The gestures are words in movement; therefore they must go hand in hand with our words and have coherence since the body does not lie.
Handshake:
A strong, firm handshake is usually a good sign that the person is confident and comfortable with himself.
Open palms are a sign of honesty; for that reason, it is one of the gestures most used by politicians. They know what the poses and looks are to gain the trust and affection of the people.
Sellers must show submission, since body language amplifies decisions, and people do not consume according to the product but according to the attitude of the seller.
Currently, the use of body language has been lost due to social media as people now communicate through text messages. But the problem is that you cannot get to know the expression of the person you are talking to, you cannot see the expressions, so it is much more difficult to know if the message is being received correctly.
You may also like:
Body Language Do’s and Don’ts in a Job Interview