NEVER MIND! DON’T JUDGE ME

Don’t judge me. Don’t judge me for my mistakes. I don’t understand why do people waste their time by judging me. I know I’m not perfect, and I don’t live to be, but before you start pointing fingers at me, make sure your hands are clean and clear.” No one is perfect. Ask a simple question to yourself. Will judging others help you? If not, then why to waste time by judging others.

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  1. Don’t judge me: Don’t judge me. Its super easy to judge the mistakes of others. But it’s difficult is to recognize our own mistakes. Just keep working on yourself and no comparison to others. There are people in front of us and there are people behind us. Stop judging. Instead, try to understand.
  2. Judgment Reveals our Character: Judgement comes from our own thinking mind. It reveals our character so do not judge rather take action. Who you are is what you are. But no matter who you are, no matter what you did, no matter where you’ve come from, you can always change and become a better version of yourself and that, right there should be your focus.
  3. Your Judgments: You make a lot of good judgments in your life, you are considered wise. Sometimes you get angry because you feel someone judged you. You just judged them about judging you. The next time you say, even to yourself, I like that person. You judged them. Don’t like them. You judged them. When you think they are smart. You judged them.
  4. Be your own judge: Be your own judge, to see how good you are performing, be proactive, be productive. Focus on improving yourself. Your time is better utilized doing that, rather than giving into feelings of jealousy. When you’re improving yourself, there’s no time to judge anyone. Focus on your personal improvement always. There is no rush no competition with entire set of people. You are doing better, and you will be doing best if you are working hard. Comparison to others is your insult. So better compare yourself today with previous version of yourself in the past. We are always learning, and sometimes we forget who we are. We should always take the time to step back and make sure we are good people non-judgmental, helpful and nice.
  5. Upgrade your identity: Strive hard to upgrade your identity. This would keep you stay busy and focused on your progress. People judge your worth by the words, you speak, action you perform and message you share. Hence, be your own judge and don’t judge anyone.
  6. Personal development: Personal development is a continuous journey. Once you accept that personal development is a continuous journey, and you commit to that journey, you realize that each day you will become a little clearer about what you want? As you become clearer about what you want, you start to see how achieving your goal will improve your life.
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There is a stronger possibility of committing mistakes. Wise people don’t do so. Believe in yourself. Help Others if you can. Your name itself a Brand, spread it by connecting people. Our job should be to lift the poor’s and comfort the broken ones, which will end-up improve ourselves. We should always try to improve ourselves, our lives, and to keep going forward. Life is too short to spend your time by doing nothing. Please don’t do so.

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75 thoughts on “NEVER MIND! DON’T JUDGE ME

  1. So true! I was always afraid of the judgement from others but i have come to the realizatiom that i want to be my own judge and do not have to prove anything to others. This has helped me at being more active and confident:)

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    1. That’s really awesome naaiba, if you want to fulfill others judgments then your life is too short to make them happy. Ww should always be our own judges. Thank you so kind naaiba for all your time and honorable response to my blog. I really appreciate your response and it really means a lot to me.

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  2. You’re right. Nobody has the right to judge others. Only God can truly judge correctly. Unfortunately it’s human nature, so we need to be reminded not to do it. Thanks for sharing.

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    1. You are right Tina, Human nature is so that it makes us busy in judging others but we should have to regret it. Yes we should only have to judge others in positive sense to take advantage of the behavior and motivation.

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  3. Humans will naturally judge. You, I, everyone will judge if we are not aware that we are doing it. I think that it’s great you brought this issue to people’s attention, especially to those who may not be fully conscious or aware that they’re judgmental.

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    1. Aw, you are right Hillary, Human beings judging others is really natural. But if we try to judge people in a positive way that we could get something good for ourselves or for entire human beings will be a best way of using our judging power.

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  4. “Judging” You ALL as Fundamentally Good

    ON FRIENDSHIP AND SUPPORT

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    I Have NO TIME!!! for People Propagating and Promoting Problems; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I Have ALL The Time In The World for Others, Like Me with MMHI (Multiple Mental Health Issues), Who Seek Solutions…once a Friend always a Friend; so I Divide My Friends in to Dormant and Active:

    ♧ Clubbing – I Have Fallen Out with My Dormant Friends and We ARE Failing to Find a Path to Reconciliation – Clubbing
    ♡ My Active Friends KNOW!!! I Don’t Like Being Told What To, I Don’t Mind Being Respectfully Corrected and I Actively Listen
    ♤ So, please EveryOne, Your THOUGHTS!!! on Friends; especially Those Who “Cut Off ALL Communication FOREVER!!! 😠 ”

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    …◇◇◇…

    ON HAPPYNESS

    ♡ I DO Feel True Happiness EveryOne, Simply and Complexly, I Was Playing ‘Hide and Seek’ with My True Happiness; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I Have counted to 10 and said “I’m coming to find you true happiness; ready or not.”…so I Suggest Stick At It; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that it’s Well Worth It 😀

    …♡♡♡…

    ON PERCEIVED POWER

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    An almost inevitable cause of Falling Out with Others is Wanting To Be The Most POWERFUL!!! whether in A Family, At Work, Friendships, Lovers, Neighbours or Any Other; when We Relinquish Our Demands and Wants To Be The Most POWERFUL!!! Amazing Things Happen…it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that The Wants and Demands To Be The Most POWERFUL!!! ARE ALL About Self Protection; there ARE Few More Heart Wrenching Sights than Observing The Once Most POWERFUL!!! Whimpering like a Wounded Dog and Begging For Mercy…it is Simple yet Complex to Rid OurSelves of This POWERFUL!!! Anxiety; it begins with Spending Linear Time in Solitude and Turning Inwards by Admitting, Acknowledging and Addressing Our MMHI (Multiple Mental Health Issues)…then We Find, via Childlike Rediscovery, Our Place Of Love, In Joy, At Peace; a Humble Place where The Universe is able to Empower Us Even More than Ever…so I Suggest Avoid Co-Dependent Dominance, Submission and Misery; instead Focus on Our Boundaries and Co-Operation with Others (Don’t Be A DoorMat for Power Mongers) and The Universe WILL!!! Answer…

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    …◇◇◇…

    ON ADDICTED

    So what Exactly is Addiction EveryOne 🤔 ? Here’s My View; an Addiction is SomeThing We Believe We Cannot Do WithOut such as this Non-Exhaustive List:

    ♤ Sex
    ♤ Ciggies
    ♤ Exercise
    ♤ Drugs
    ♤ Dieting
    ♤ Attention
    ♤ Adulation
    ♤ Alcohol
    ♤ Being RIGHT!!! 😠

    …it’s possible to become De-Addicted creating Exes that may have unfortunate, unforseen consequences; consequences such as Cold Turkey, SMUGNESS!!! et al Totally Lacking Empathy, a Pathological Form of Self Protective Psychopathy like:

    ♧ Clubbing – Ex-Smokers – Clubbing
    ♧ Clubbing – Ex-Lovers – Clubbing
    ♧ Clubbing – Ex-Druggies – Clubbing

    …this List is NOT!!! Exhaustive EveryOne; when We Recover and Survive I THINK!!! it’s Incumbent Upon Us to be Kind, Caring and Compassionate rather than Boasting about Our Recovery and Sneering:

    ♧ Clubbing – “If I AM Able to do it why aren’t You 🤔 ? You ARE PATHETIC 😬 !!!” – Clubbing

    …it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that We Prefer to SEE (Soulful Emotional Energy) OurSelves as Supportive yet the above seems to indicate The Opposite; it’s My Experience that Many Folk ARE Only Looking Out for ThemSelves which is Fair Enough and WHY!!! I Tend to AVOID OTHERS!!! for Their Protection and Mine…

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    …◇◇◇…

    ON LETTING GO

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    ♤ Some Say “Quitting is Weakness!!!”; I Say “FUCK OFF!!!”
    ♤ Some Say “I’VE LOST EVERYTHING!!!”; I Say “Swallow Some Cement then Harden The FUCK UP!!!”
    ♤ Some Say “IT’S ALL YOUR FAULT!!!; I Say “Look in Your FUCKING!!! Mirror.”

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    ◇ Pay Attention
    ◇ Signs
    ◇ Synchronicities
    ◇ SubAtomic Spaces
    ◇ Suggestions
    ◇ Signals
    ◇ Guidelines
    ◇ Pointers
    ◇ Pay FUCKING!!! Attention

    …if You FAIL!!! to Understand The Above I Suggest Using Road Trips as Metaphor; if That FAILS!!! then This Message isn’t Meant For You RIGHT NOW!!! 😆😅😄😃😂😁😀😉😊 Cognitive Dissonance is THE RAGE RESISTANCE!!! to Different Ways of THINKING!!!, Speaking and Behaving; something called ‘The Leech Effect’ in Fond Memory of ‘Medical Experts’ who ‘Bled Out Bad Blood’ with Leeches as a ‘Cure’ so, given pharma, nothing much has changed there, yet We Have a Perfect AutoImmune System…this Absurdity is NOT!!! confined to The Medical Profession, for example, a Circle is Accepted as 360° yet Mathematicians and Scientists, due to Their Entrenched Education, Argue The Toss about How Many Degrees a Sphere Has; the simple answer is 360° Cubed (46,656,000° for those interested) just like a Square, 90°×4=360° Cubed (46,656,000° for those interested), Go Figure 🤔 ?…

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    …◇◇◇…

    ON BEING AFEARED

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    In My Experience there ARE Two Types of People in the Context of Fear; those who treat Fear as a Problem and Pretend to be Fearless and those who Accept that We ALL Feel Fear and who Perceive Fear as a Pathway to Solutions…it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I Really Don’t Have Time for Problem Promoters, COMPLAINANTS!!! Seeking Excuses and ALL The Time in The World for Solution Seekers, THINKERS!!! Embracing Fear as an Assisting Friend; so I Invite You ALL to Consider These Various Expansions of The Acronym F.E.A.R then please Share Your THOUGHTS!!! with ALL of Us:

    ◇ False Evidence Appearing Real
    ◇ Friendly Emotive Alert Response
    ◇ Firm Efficient Assertive ReAction

    …it’s also Crystal Clear Clarity that I AM Successful because I AM Driven by Fear of Failure; a Very Powerful Motivation…yet I Still Fail but it doesn’t matter; especially because of Inspirational People like this Lady (May She R.I.P)

    http://www.susanjeffers.com – Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    …◇◇◇…

    ON SAT (SURRENDER ACCEPTANCE TRUST)

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    ◇ It’s Crystal Clear Clarity that Some of Us Really Do Understand Suffering, Forgiveness and Boundaries 🤓 ; yet Others Allow Bad Behaviours to Continue in The Mistaken Belief that Behaviours WILL!!! Improve with ALL Sweetness and Light 😔 …that is until Furious, Raging Resentment Kicks In 😠 ; so, watch’ya gonna do next 🤔 ? So I Suggest with ALL Your Perceived Power Sit Down, Be Humble and Just Be; whatever NEEDS!!! Knowing or Remembrance in ANY GIVEN MOMENT!!! doesn’t NEED FORCING!!!

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    …◇◇◇…

    ON TABOO DATING

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    Many Serial Daters may consider Futures Dates in a Different Light; with an InExhaustible List of Questions Like:

    ◇ “What are your sexual preferences 🤔?”
    ◇ “Are you psycho 🤔 ?”
    ◇ “How many kids do you want 🤔 ?”

    …and Other such ‘Inappropriate’ Dating Questions; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that doing things the same way and expecting different results is mad, nutty, dumb, confused, crazy, delusional et al…this with a Very, Due Respectful Nod in The Direction of Mr Albert Einstein; a Scientist who was NEVER!!! Comfortable with The Idea of Quantum UnCertainty Famously Stating “God does not play dice with The Universe.”…

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    …◇◇◇…

    ON RELIGION AND OTHER MODALITIES

    ♡ So You Don’t Trust YourSelf EveryOne instead Trusting to Other ‘Authority’ such as a White Elderly Man with a Long White Beard or Other ‘Divine’ Male, Godly Manifestations while Totally Ignoring Goddess; Poor You, I’ll Observe from a Distance while SHE!!! Rips You Apart 😆😅😄😃😂😁😀😉😊

    …♡♡♡…

    ON THE NATURE OF REALITY – PROBLEM SOLVING

    ♡ I Seek Solutions instead of Promoting Problems EveryOne; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that We ALL Have Limitations yet We Can ALL Do Things Others Struggle To Do so I Suggest Figure Out Your Weaknesses and Strengths

    …so, about Awareness and Enlightenment; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity to Me that Consciousness has Four States:

    ♤ Conscious of Our Decision Making – Our Choices
    ♤ SubConscious State 1 – A Private Place where We ARE UnConscious of Our Decision Making, Reflexes and Knee-Jerk ReActions
    ♤ SubConscious State 2 – A Public Place where We Do ESP (Extra Sensory Perception) Stuff like Telepathy and Dreaming et al
    ♤ SubConscious State 3 – The Single Source of All That Was, All That Is and All That Will Be, An Ever Expanding Sphere

    …so Repetition, Routine and Boredom may be Suggesting To You a Lesson to be Learned EveryOne; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that Everything Passes whether ‘Good’ or ‘Bad’ so The Trick is Not to Get Stuck in Circular Time with ‘Bad’ or ‘Good’…instead Let Life Flow in Linear Time; this is 3D after all and 5D is Attainable by Traversing 4D

    …♡♡♡…

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  5. Rising Star, you wrote: “Let People decide what you are! Rising Star is a writer, motivational Speaker and an inspirational Blogger. Master’s Degree in Computer Science WordPress Website Developer Search Engine Optimizer (SEO)”. So, do you want the people to ‘judge’ you or not. I will personally apologize to you if someone was mean in their comments to you, but you did ask for people to decide about your credentials as a blogger and motivational speaker.

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    1. Thanks dear for your so much interest and involvement in my post. I really appreciate your response and your way of judgment. Actually I wrote this to encourage people in the that they should not waste their time in judging people in a negative way and in the way, to point out their mistakes. This’ll spoil their time along with their talent. We should judge people in the positive way to take some motivation and knowledge to increase confidence. I’m sorry if there’s anything wrong in my response and once again thanks for your valued feedback and time to my blog. It really means a lot to me.

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      1. Hi again, Rising Star. Make no mistake, you are definitely encouraging people. Your number of ‘followers’ is proof. I’m older than you and could be your great grandmother and my ‘take’ on negative information is that over the years it has made me a much better person. I’ve learned to say ‘I’m sorry’, ‘thank you’, ‘God bless you’ ‘I love you’ and ‘peace’. Therefore, I’m OK and I hope you are also. Keep the faith.

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      2. Wow, thank you so much sweeeet grandma for your so kind and inspirational words. Your response is very much honorable to me. You have hired me for your love and blessings. You are a great lady with a lot of experience and knowledge. I have tfrom my seniors to help and respect the elderly people every time because they are the real beauty of the world with a lot of experience and glory. I really appreciate kind words like you mentioned….

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  6. You are right dear, these are written for judgment and I would like to say that these judgment are useful. There could be many mistakes in me and my blog. But there could also be some good things to judge in my profile. If someone wasted their time in pointing out my mistakes then it will be wastage of time for them, but if someone judged me in the sense of positivity then it will be a better judgment for them. Thank you very kind dear for your worthy response with example. I really loved and appreciate your response.

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    1. You are almost right Jane, we judge and then try to follow-up but if we can’t get success altimately we jump towards jealousy which hamper our creativity and self confidence. Thank you so kind Jane for sharing your interest.

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  7. I couldn’t agree more with you about judging. Allow me the grace to bring another perspective to this arena. When someone judges another, he or she does so from ego showing how in in actuality, that person has little respect or confidence in themselves. I remember someone telling me when you judge or point a finger at another, you have 4 more fingers pointing back to you. What one is judging is what is within the one who judges but who does not want to acknowledge. When we know or understand what is truly in motion “behind the scenes” life becomes fascinating to witness. Not only that, life is the dance and we are the dancer. (smile) We create our world. Heaven or hell …. it’s all in our choices.

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    1. Thanks great lady for your kind words. I really appreciate your Way of judgment. But I would like to say that you judged the article in your own way and you are right for the good reason. The main reason I mentioned not to judge other is the negative things in others. We should definitely judge people in a positive way that we could get something good and attractive in others personality. We can improve our imagination power by judging in the positive rather than negative. We should not judge people for the mistakes so that we will not be able to criticize them. But you are senior to me and I really appreciate your support and worthy response.

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      1. My intention was not to judge and I apologize if that is how it came across. I was just adding to your already great thoughts about judging. There are times when we don’t even know we are judging … it takes a very awake mind to catch the thoughts. I do honestly applaud you for this post. A better world it shall be when all of us know better not to judge another. As I’m fond of saying …. “No one knows what someone’s life is like unless that person walks in that person’s shoes.”

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      2. Wow, you are right mam and I really appreciate your response. At first I was miss-understand your point and I also apologize if I have disappointed you some how. You are right mam that we can’t understand someone’s life and thoughts so quickly unless… As you said. Thank you so kind ma’am, and lot of love from my side.

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      3. Please call me Amy. Everyone does. Unfortunately with the written word especially if your first language is not English, it is easy to misunderstand. No worries. I get it. Why should I be disappointed in you? That’s silly. Really. Much love to you as well. Keep learning …. you are on such a good path!!

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  8. Really.we should judge ourselves because in age of adult,we have matured and able to take decision about our lives,careers and can choose the right path to go ahead.nice article,dear.🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

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    1. Thanks Aruna for your time and worthy response. Everybody needs to judge their self first rather than judging others. But judge others only in positive ways as to get something special from them.

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