We Should Compromise in A Relationship
Today I traveled for a long journey. I met a driver whose age was between 55 to 60 years. I will call him “Baba” in the Article. told me a very heart touching story of his life. After hearing his story, I became so upset. I think that he was at an age of 60’s. Baba was still doing a job of driving and was earning money for himself.
Baba told me that life is a good teacher. Baba teaches more than any of the professor of the world. I’m so confused about him. Baba was a father of two sons’. Baba told me that my wife is living apart from me with one of my son due to some family matters in which both are at the Pertinacity. Baba further clarified that he tried to conform her once but failed. Now this man is suffering from anxiety and depression at this age where the unity is very much necessary for both to live happily. Baba is living with another son. Baba was very upset for his wife but still he was not thinking to compromise for his dignity and values.
The more surprising and shameful act which he tells about is that our worst people living in our society. Baba said that my fellows make me fool on daily basis. They make fun and enjoy this state. They don’t know my inner feelings. They can’t feel this because they haven’t faced this situation. This is a very shameful and Unethical practice of our society. Why these people are living with our society. These people do not deserve to be part of our society. These bullies are the needy people and we have to help them to change their attitude. They should be educated of the manners of how to deal with such innocent people which are already victim of depressions and are at this age of their life.
Furthermore, I advised Baba that you should ignore these people. They do not know your inner feelings that’s why they are doing like this. When you start ignoring them they will automatically feel this ignorance and will Tyrannize themselves to stop bulling.
Furthermore, I told Baba that the relation of a wife and husband is very critical. This relation can only survive with compromise. In this relation one of the person has to compromise of his dignity and honor. If both of the person stand still with his ego and honor, then this relation cannot run smoother. If there in a strike fight or disagreement on any matter one of person has to sacrifice their feelings and should accept the decision of the other.
I advised baba, although he was senior to me, that you should have to make a try to agree her to live with you. If she still disagrees you, you should try again, if she still not agrees you should make another try in a different way, and if she still not agree leave it at the mercy of Allah, but do not close the doors of your house for her any time. If there comes a time that she came back to live with you must accept her proposal any time. At least Baba agreed to me and promised me that he will definitely try again and again.
Now I’m going to conclude this real life story on the two very important points.
- We have to sort out the bad and worst mind people in our community and have to educate them, that they should not to make fun of such type of innocent people. Sensibly they should have to help them in solving their problems so that they can live with dignity rather than anxiety.
- We have to look back at our marital life and will have to remove any accusation and remonstrance if present that can cause sorrows and Ruefulness in future. This relation is a gift from Allah to all human beings. This is the only relation that can never be fulfilled by any of the world. So we have to think about it and be thankful to Allah for such a wonderful relation. In spite of daily routine tasks we have to give a sufficient amount of time to our family. This will strengthen the relation more and will help to know and understand one’s feelings and thoughts.We have to sort out the bad and worst mind people in our community and have to educate them, that they should not to make fun of such type of innocent people. Sensibly they should have to help them in solving their problems so that they can live with dignity rather than anxiety.
Thanks to all of you that you read the article. Re-blog this Article, not only for me but for those innocent people who are victims of such type of bullying. I need your help to stop bullying and educate bullies.
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