We Should Compromise in A Relationship

Today I traveled for a long journey. I met a driver whose age was between 55 to 60 years. I will call him “Baba” in the Article. told me a very heart touching story of his life. After hearing his story, I became so upset. I think that he was at an age of 60’s. Baba was still doing a job of driving and was earning money for himself.

Baba told me that life is a good teacher. Baba teaches more than any of the professor of the world. I’m so confused about him. Baba was a father of two sons’. Baba told me that my wife is living apart from me with one of my son due to some family matters in which both are at the Pertinacity. Baba further clarified that he tried to conform her once but failed. Now this man is suffering from anxiety and depression at this age where the unity is very much necessary for both to live happily. Baba is living with another son. Baba was very upset for his wife but still he was not thinking to compromise for his dignity and values.

The more surprising and shameful act which he tells about is that our worst people living in our society. Baba said that my fellows make me fool on daily basis. They make fun and enjoy this state. They don’t know my inner feelings. They can’t feel this because they haven’t faced this situation. This is a very shameful and Unethical practice of our society. Why these people are living with our society. These people do not deserve to be part of our society. These bullies are the needy people and we have to help them to change their attitude. They should be educated of the manners of how to deal with such innocent people which are already victim of depressions and are at this age of their life.

Furthermore, I advised Baba that you should ignore these people. They do not know your inner feelings that’s why they are doing like this. When you start ignoring them they will automatically feel this ignorance and will Tyrannize themselves to stop bulling.

Furthermore, I told Baba that the relation of a wife and husband is very critical. This relation can only survive with compromise. In this relation one of the person has to compromise of his dignity and honor. If both of the person stand still with his ego and honor, then this relation cannot run smoother. If there in a strike fight or disagreement on any matter one of person has to sacrifice their feelings and should accept the decision of the other.

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I advised baba, although he was senior to me, that you should have to make a try to agree her to live with you. If she still disagrees you, you should try again, if she still not agrees you should make another try in a different way, and if she still not agree leave it at the mercy of Allah, but do not close the doors of your house for her any time. If there comes a time that she came back to live with you must accept her proposal any time. At least Baba agreed to me and promised me that he will definitely try again and again.

Now I’m going to conclude this real life story on the two very important points.

  1. We have to sort out the bad and worst mind people in our community and have to educate them, that they should not to make fun of such type of innocent people. Sensibly they should have to help them in solving their problems so that they can live with dignity rather than anxiety.
  2. We have to look back at our marital life and will have to remove any accusation and remonstrance if present that can cause sorrows and Ruefulness in future. This relation is a gift from Allah to all human beings. This is the only relation that can never be fulfilled by any of the world. So we have to think about it and be thankful to Allah for such a wonderful relation. In spite of daily routine tasks we have to give a sufficient amount of time to our family. This will strengthen the relation more and will help to know and understand one’s feelings and thoughts.We have to sort out the bad and worst mind people in our community and have to educate them, that they should not to make fun of such type of innocent people. Sensibly they should have to help them in solving their problems so that they can live with dignity rather than anxiety.

Thanks to all of you that you read the article. Re-blog this Article, not only for me but for those innocent people who are victims of such type of bullying. I need your help to stop bullying and educate bullies.

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67 Responses

  1. I believe we should never listen to other’s critics and what they say or think about us! What matters is us! What the others want is always to judge us! We just don’t have to waste our time with them!
    For the couple I guess respect is very important! When two people in love, respect themselves, there is always harmony 🙂

  2. ashok says:

    There is so much sorrow and sadness in the world. Do your best for whom so ever you can and let go.

  3. Zebua says:

    Many people feel happy above the suffering of others. Hopefully, Baba will soon find the best solution to the problem being faced. Thank you, my friend, for sharing this very touching story as a lesson for all of us to respect one another.

  4. Chocoviv says:

    There are so many critics in the world! I try very hard myself to ignore these non-constructive commentaries….

  5. I’m sure you are aware that there are various kinds of criticism. Positive criticism builds rather breaks down
    character, unlike negative which destroys character. Which one do you think is better?

  6. Nice article, people compromise because no one ever gets there way all the time. Plus If you love them, its easy

  7. Lisa Coleman says:

    Bullying needs to stop. For the young, for the old and everyone in between. There are so many mean people out there. Why can’t we just all get along & respect each other whether we agree or not? The earth would be a much better place. I hope Baba finds peace & happiness through compromise. You did a wonderful deed.

  8. Huguette says:

    It’s good to share real life story and try to help some person to make their life better
    This life is so hard and it’s harder if we listen to stupid people, to sick people that try to destroy because they are too weak to build! In relationships, whenever 2 persons are unable to have decent relationship, they must end it immediately, of course they can try to fix things but we can’t force love and reconciliation, it’s whether there it it’s not!
    Thank you for sharing 👍

    • Rising Star says:

      Thank you so much Huguette, It’s been a great pleasure to me that you spare some time for my blog and appreciated me, Now I think I’m really getting into the blogging after reading youor feedback. Thanks a lot. The point you should mentioned is reasonable to end up the relation, but ending a relation at an early age will be a very good choice rather to let live with dis-satisfaction for so long.

  9. It was a very good post. unfortunately people used to criticise others….. But we should just ignore them and do what we believe it is correct.

  10. Ink 'em Down says:

    Very important and great conclusions. Feel so bad for Baba; I hope things work our for him real soon.

  11. ptrikha15 says:

    Yes, some relations and especially a marriage needs give and take and we need to have patience and respect. A good post.

    • Rising Star says:

      Thanks Patricka for your feedback. You are right because this relation can’t survive with out compromise and patience. In married life there comes too many moments that were we should be conscious.

  12. Rising Star says:

    Thanks Govardhan, It’s been a great pleasure to be in touch with you. Thanks for reblogging this.

  13. swamiyesudas says:

    My Dear Rising Star, I would guess that You are a Young person. Appreciate Your Zeal. …Sacrifice, in Any relationship, is Important, of course. Also, Early in life I learnt that We NEVER Compromise. That is giving up on Values. What We have to do is called ‘Adjustments.’ …Regards.

    • Rising Star says:

      Wow, that really magnificent, we should off course ourselves according to the situation, thanks for your valued advise.

      • swamiyesudas says:

        Thank You for Your kind reply. But could not understand what You mean by: ‘we should off course ourselves.’ …Going back to what I had said, that We can ‘Adjust,’ but Not ‘Compromise,’ …

        Compromise is Giving up what One Values Most in life. If We do that, We cannot live with ourselves; We shall lose Peace. Our Interior will Keep On Complaining.

        Regards. 🙂

      • Rising Star says:

        Swami g, I’m totally agree with you. We can adjust.

  14. aruna3 says:

    You said whatever about those bullied guys,your advices are absolutely wise.i agree with your every lines.wonderful and thought provoking article.yeah,true-we should compromise in a relation.as you say-i try to reblog your post on my blog.thanks for sharing of painful experience of that Baba.i have seen here these type events.

  15. Well thought out. Bullying of any sort comes from a degree of ignorance and misunderstanding. Through dialogue, and finding middle ground, mutual direction can arise and heal all divisive barriers that stand in the way of a healthy relationship. I look forward to reading more.

  16. Love! Thans for your text!

  17. I have been the victim of severe bullying by seniors of all things we all can imagine. Actually, there are no age limits when it comes to bullying. We have had 13 year old children commit suicide because of being bullied, and it is a sick new thing showing up her for young children to use some made-up character to tell other children to do other bad things to each other and to even their parents. It is a sad society that creates these things. Where are the values that I once knew as a child?

    • Rising Star says:

      Hi Anne Copelad, I am so sorry for your loss and pray for your bright future. You are a great lady and my best wishes are always with you. I will try to write more about such crisis and bad characters and encourage people to stop these things to be happening again. I wish every society to be free of such type of bullies. Thanks for your valued feedback and time to read out my blog post.

  18. Absolutely Right….

  19. oldpoet56 says:

    Common sense things yet so many are to self adsorbed to care anything about others. I am going to reblog this article for you.

    • Rising Star says:

      Thank you so much for your support, Honestly speaking I do not have words to say thanks to you. Thank you so much for your support and time to my blog and re-blogging my post.

  20. anne leueen says:

    I have been married for 35 years. It is not all a bed of roses and we have both compromised on various things none of them were so critical that either of us felt we were diminished for having compromised. We are now in our 70s and still happy together.

    • Rising Star says:

      Wow Anne, that’s really awesome, very much happy to hear about your relationship and love. I felt that love increases as the relationship goes older, No body is perfect Anne and compromise is the best way to make any relation run smoother. Thank you so much for your time and honorable response to my blog and your support. My best wishes are always with you for your rest of the life.

  21. A very meaningful article ans a heart touching blog.

  22. This is so true. More people need to read about this ! ♥️

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