You are unique and better than anyone. But you can still try to be the best version of yourself. Stay happy with how you are and what you have. Build your self esteem because self esteem is the first step in building confidence. Your self-esteem has a keen upshot on your thinking, personality, emotions, values, desires, and goals. We need to make some rules to become successful in life.
Here are few important steps that will help you to be the best version of you. You can apply these 9 steps to increase your charisma and live your life with pride and honor.
1. Be Positive:
Try to be positive in your daily life. Positivity is the first thing, which nourishes your brain and brings chariness in your personality. Engage yourself in positive things and positive activities. Being positive is not much that difficult thing to be. Everyone can develop positivity in their personality. It could be done with willpower and practice. The best way to be positive is to think about things in a positive way. Take everything positively. Many a time there could be two meanings of a single happening. These could be positivity and negativity. Just focus your concentration on the positive side and ignore the negativity. Negativity will not give you anything good but a bad experience of life and a congested mind. So you can’t drive a long distance with a congested mind. Therefore work a little on your thinking and brainstorm positivity.
Your company matters a lot. Your personality will not be much different from the people you are sitting with. Join the company of motivated, educated and successful people. Find out the ways they are thinking off and talking about. You can get wonderful ideas from such people.
Motivation and Inspiration gives energy and the ability to move forward with spiritual power. Set your goals before thinking of any type of success. Inspiration is so much necessary to move forward in your life and stay consistent on the goals. Take inspiration on a daily basis. Take inspiration you’re your surroundings. Read the Success stories of successful people. Knowledge has the power to command obedience. Don’t stop learning and find ways to learn new things on a daily basis.
3. Learn to Forgive:
Learn to forgive people for their bad behavior, although sometimes it is not possible but you have to do it to groom your personality. No one is bad from the very first day of his life. Everyone was born innocent and full of love. But it is the situations and treatment he faced and received from others. Treat others with love, sympathy, and politeness. The day is not far when you will change the mind of those people. Teach your mind to build the courage to forgive others.
4. Don’t compare yourself to others:
Don’t compare yourself to others. You are different from all around you. Always feel proud of yourself at what you are. You are much better than many others. Mind yourself and not others. Mind your own business. Always focus on yourself and ignore others. Listen to yourself. What naysayers are doing is not your headache. What others are saying about you, is none of your tension. Let them say. Let them waste their time and energy on what they are saying.
5. Focus on your Worth:
You are unique and so find out your own worth. God has placed so much talent and potential in you. Find out that potential and uniqueness because it will help you to focus on your worth. Develop a skill in a field you are stronger and love the most. If you are doing a job you’re more interested in, you will never get tired of it. Focus on that single thing and polish your skills. If that is your uniqueness, you can make wonderful achievements in that field.
6. Dream Big:
Dream bigger and never give up on your dreams.You can do what you dream. Everyone has dreams. Think of your dreams. But do not in dreams forever. Only big dreams are not enough, you have to step in, into the practical life. The experience of practical life is different and difficult than the dreaming world. In practical life, you have to face certain challenges and consequences. But only steadiness and stillness can help you make your dreams come true. Believe me! Everything is possible. If you can dream it, means you can achieve it.
7. Don’t Expect Too much:
Avoid expecting too much from people around you and also form yourself. There is a limit to everything. Nothing can be done beyond the limits. Expecting too much is foolishness. What you give others doesn’t mean that you will receive the same back. Everyone has a different mindset. People think in a different way. No one can judge your inner self the way you are. Just learn to give others as much as you can and accept happily what you receive in response. The same way if you think of your efforts and struggles you are making to achieve something great, doesn’t mean you will achieve everything that you are expecting. The result could be different or maybe disappointing from your expectations, but make yourself strong enough to accept anything you achieve.
8. Aim for Success:
Besides everything else, always aim for success. Define your own success. The definition of success for me is different from the success of yours. Success is not accidental; it is a step by step process, and you have to move with all your limitations. If you are happy with what you are and what you have then you are the most successful person in the world. Set your goals in life and try to achieve them step by step and one by one. Setting and achieving small goals will never let you discourage. Don’t make yourself happy by reading the success stories of others, make your own success story and make people happy and inspired by reading your success story.
9. Accept Failures:
Failures and success both have equal possibilities. Most of the times it depends on the strategy you design, the efforts you make, your experience, your goal, and the situations you face. Success requires efforts, experience, and a wise strategy. Try to achieve success at every condition but pre-prepare yourself for failure too. Accept failure or whatever the situations are bold. Failure is never a failure if you take it positively. You can learn a lot from failure. Failures are also worth a lot. It teaches us more than any good teacher. Things learned from experience can never be forgotten and always priceless.
Following these steps will help you increase your charisma and to be the best version of yourself.
In your opinion, What is success?