Are you the person who people think you are?
Almost all of us always want to be liked and appreciated by everyone for our talent, our nature, our achievements, and our intelligence. Sometimes we almost rely on the opinion of other peoples and we try to spend our lives according to their wishes. We always give priority to the other peoples thinking that what they think of us? We then try to live on their expectations, not on our desires. How people want us to be, we try to become so. Don’t worry! Let them say what they want.
You will constantly make yourself worried about what others think of you. It is human nature they always love to waste their precious time talking about others. If you do well they will talk about you, if you do something bad they do the same. People just need the topic of gossiping. Otherwise, they had nothing to do with you.
Then why we keep ourselves worrying about what others think of us?
Have you ever thought about why you care for such people? Why don’t we think of ourselves as what we care about? Why don’t we value ourselves? People’s mindset will never change. Don’t worry! Let them say what they want. They will always be free to judge you, no matter what you do to please them, you can’t change their mindset.
Indeed, we can never please everyone so we should care about our loved ones who care for us. And stop thinking of the people who always judge us, no matter how good you become, they will judge you according to their mindset. So it is useless to be worried for those, who always try to snatch your peace of mind. So stop pleasing everyone and boost your self-esteem by ignoring such people in your life. Because people’s mindset can’t be changed. It is only you who has to change and accept the things as they are going.
Stop worrying about people’s opinions towards you. Some people are always criticizing and unhappy with others. The negative feedback we receive always comes from negative people with a negative mindset. So we must keep this thing in our mind and don’t even try to think of their words and actions. Because these are the attention seekers who always spread negativity among people. Always try to think positively and avoid the company of such people.
God has given us this single life and this life is very short. Then why we spoil the beautiful moments of our life in thinking that what others think of us and keep ourselves worried. So let go of the people whatever they are thinking of you? Letting go is difficult though but once you start this you will see the difference in yourself.
When you think people love you for this reason and people will hate you for this reason but believe me it is nothing to do anything with you. Live your life according to your own choice and according to your set parameters. Don’t worry! Let them say. Keep your self-esteem high and make yourself strong enough to ignore such people in your life.
Do you want to live a life according to others’ wishes?