Live with People Who Feel Proud to Have You Among Them

  • We should compromise our qualities and live according to the choice and conditions of the community we are living.

  • We bound our community as, to accept us with all our moral and social values.

  1. Feel proud on having us among them: We must remain in between the people who always feel proud of having us among them. These are our real lovers and will always want to keep us among them.
  2. For whom we are their priority: These people will give us most priority. They will not keep anything else important then us.
  3. Stay loyal to us when times are hard: These people will always try to stay loyal to us. Whenever there comes a hard time on us, they will never say us good bye, but they will stand still with us. They will face every hurdles in our way, until we become stable.
  4. Celebrate successes with us: These people will celebrate success with us, not only for show, but they will really feel proud and happiness, and will really enjoy our celebrations.
  5. Bring out the best in us: These people will always try to bring out best in us and in our attitude. They will motivate us and guide us in every field of life.
  6. Are afraid to lose us: These people will never want to lose us. They will be afraid of losing us. They will try their best to keep us connected with them. They will remove hurdles coming in between them and our way, so that the connection will become more strengthen.
  7. Will trust us: These people will always trust us. They will first try to build trust in us. They will not compromise on our honesty and loyalty. Their trust will make us stronger and worthier.

61 thoughts on “Live with People Who Feel Proud to Have You Among Them

    1. Thank you so much Diana for your time and kind words. I really appreciate your response, and I just write this to share my thoughts with people, your response really inspired me and mean’s a lot to me. Thanks again for your time and honorable feedback.

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    1. Off course Jihn Pa, your thoughts are really awesome, it makes life easier and feel much more comfortable to be in such type of community. Thanks for your valued feedback and time to my blog. It really means a lot to me.

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    1. Nicely said Rebecca, I really appreciate your response. Your blog is so nice, I visit your regularly, it’s really awesome. Thank you so much for your time and honorable response to my blog. It really means a lot to me.

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  1. Thank you for visiting. I love that you asked for feedback, good or bad, that is what makes us better.

    The freedom I experience nowadays, comes from one place alone- FREEDOM in JESUS CHRIST, how? Because in Him I am free- free of guilt, free of shame, free to sing, to dance, freed of the shackles of the world.

    As opposed to BEING UNDER THE DELUSION OF FREEDOM BY BEING FULL OF PRIDE- LIVING HOW I WANT, DOING WHAT I WANT, WITH WHOM I WANT, AS MANY TIMES AS I WANT, this never provides freedom, no matter how many pretty colorful flags I fly, or how many parties I throw, or smile, or money I spend, the more I do this the more shackled I become by BULLSHIT and a fake life as I swear I’m free.

    As far as the community- the guidelines would be ideal if we have an option, but many times things appear as we have one, and we really don’t. Where in this world can we go, to live in an ideal community?

    Maybe a farm, with house sitting on many acres, with animals and nature all around… Because nature is the only thing u can trust to NOT LIE, TO LOVE YOU, TO BE RELIABLE, TO ACCEPT U, dogs, birds, trees, plants, animals, flowers, these things are holy and blessed.

    People will always reject you, even when they smile and greet u warmly, bring u cakes, pies, smile, and feel ur ears with how great you are.. Blah, blah, blah, make no mistake, there will always be WOLVES PRETENDING TO BE SHEEP, if we lie to ourselves and think we are surrounded by only those we love… We are under a grand delusion.

    If we are HONEST, SINCERE, AND SEEK TO HELP OTHERS, WE will gain the respect of most, and naturally gravitate to leaders, pillars of strength in the community we live, even when many hate us, but I don’t live to gain the respect of anyone, because when we do that we will always fail, I live to do the will of God, my happiness is derived from HIM, not the community, people always fail us. He never does. God bless

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    1. Wow, your response is really very much appreciated and inspirational. It made me visit your blog on daily basis. I will try to do so. Your beliefs made me follow your blog and explore your thoughts more than this. Thank you so much for your time and honorable response to my blog. It really means a lot to me.

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      1. Thanks Ben, I am here not only for myself but for all of my sweet WordPress family. We are the WordPressians and here to help and support each other. This’ll make us more stronger and a loving community. Thanks to you for being part of our family.

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  2. It’s like a quote I recently found said, “don’t strive to make your presence noticed, just make your absence felt”. If even for one brief moment, the ones in our lives miss us, then we have done something right. Those who truly care will bring us up when we’re not around in a good way. Eventually all we have will fade, except the impact we made on those in our lives even after we’re gone. When you have people in your life who care, you won’t ever have to wonder if they do or not. Nice piece and thank you for liking some of my work as well. Our goal in life should be to make someone smile or laugh every single day and bring them joy. God Bless.

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    1. Thank you so much Boza, your qoute has completely described the whole of the article. I strongly appreciate your thoughts. It really means a lot to me. I visit your blog constantly and found some of the great piece of writing their. Thanks again for your time and honorable response to my blog. Looking forward to explore your blog soon.

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  3. Two things are very difficult to determine in life, we don’t choose who our parents Will be,and the environment we are starting from, these are beyond our choice, but the good news is we all have the will- power to choose who our real friend could be.
    Friendship should not be by force but by choice.
    A right choice of friendship matters a lot, because friendship is like a vehicle that carries us to where are going in life,show me your friends and I will tell you where you are heading to in life.
    Am really glad to be around,I enjoyed every bit of this article, nice layout,put together by wonderful people,am happy am here, thanks for sharing this, you have made my weekend.

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    1. Thank you so much for your so much inspirational comments. I really liked and enjoyed your response. It reminds me of my friends gathering and every moment, we’ve spent together, full of memories and real time support for one another. Thank you so much for all of these and your time and honorable response to my blog. Many blessings.

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  4. I can relate very much to what you wrote. We mustn’t feel like we have to change to suit other people. Sometimes it’s hard to find people who will be there through all the good and bad. They are friends to hang onto if we can find them.

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  5. So true !Less is More ! that’s my motto and the one I share with my students too. Make your little circle of friends/fam the coziest and strongest one. We dont need a lot of people around us, just the best ones πŸ™‚

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    1. Wow, I really appreciate your response and your ideas, it’s true that we only need a few but very close people that can feel and judge us with our silence. The little but strong people of our circle can make us more stronger. More over we can give more time and concentration if the list of our loved ones is not so long. I would love to be part of your little circle. Thank you so much Estelea, for your time and honorable response to my blog. I would love to explore your blog soon.

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    1. That’s really an interesting response. I really loved it and appreciate your response. You explained it in just a few lines wonderfully. Thank you so much for your worthy time and honorable response to my blog.

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  6. So true. I have had to extricate myself from many unsupportive, selfish and ignorant friends over the years. Those who were happy to see me when they needed me and leave me when I needed them. Now it’s so lovely just having a handful of friends and my amazing family; it’s a small but strong and positive group. I’m proud of them as they are of me, we all look out for each other and boost each other when needed.

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    1. Honestly speaking, you have done a great job, it becomes some time difficult to differentiate between the true friends, but situation and experience makes it easier for us. Always keep your trusted friends and sweet family happy and engaged. Life without true friends is just a passage of time. You really done a great job dear. Keep supporting your friends and family and also my blog. Many blessings and love to you and your family.

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